Postive vs Negative???

Here I am. Staring at my laptop and thinking what I'm going to share. There's a lot things going on my mind but I don't know how to express them in words. Sigh. Lets start with how we think about ourselves or others. Sometimes we being negative or prejudice. Maybe because we've been through rough times. A time where we've been hurt or betrayed. A time where we loss someone that we care so much. Or anything that can lead us into negative thinking and make ourselves down or paranoid. We don't like how we look like. Feel ain't pretty enough. Can't get what we want. It's normal when we have such feelings but we cannot let these kind of feelings destroy our positive energy. Recently, I read an article in Cleo. "Think less and love your life more". It's about how we can make ourselves feel happy eventhough what we want is not happened according to the plan. Sort of like that I guess. Hehe. It says that "Being happy in your life is not about what happens to you but how you respond to those events. When you feel optimistic and energised, your positive vibe works like a magnet attracting good people, useful resources, opportunities and optimum circumstances to you". This article also gives some solutions in order for us to feel happy with ourselves. "Stop thinking too much. Not only thinking negative thoughts, but just living so much within our thoughts. Live in the present. About the past or fearing the future, remind ourselves that we can't change either; so geting hung up about these things is a waste of time". Hm, I think this article hepls me to change my view about what did happened to me and how I feel about my ownself. I admit that sometimes I tend to be so negative and it hurts me so much. And I can also be paranoid. Gosh! But when I recall them back, things happened for reasons and I'm learning from my experiences. Life is like a marry-go-round. There's a time you're on the top, there's a time you'll be at the bottom. I just bear in mind that "What I do not want done to myself, do not do to others." Because I believe in Karma. Now, I'm trying to be positive as I can. Fingers crossed! When I feel down about myself, sigh why I can't be like others etc..I will try to remember this. "Cassie dearie, each and everyone has their own uniqueness, advantages and disadvantages. Beauty attracts attention, but personality captures the heart. You can't please everybody. Just be yourself. Be honest,sincere and loyal. Respect others. Be grateful with what you have". In sum, nobody is perfect (^^,)